Greetings, my dear children. Today, I want to talk to you about a topic that affects us all - quarrels. Quarrels can arise between friends, family members, coworkers, and even strangers. They can start over something as simple as a disagreement or as complex as a deep-seated hurt or betrayal. Regardless of their origin, quarrels have the potential to distract us from God's plan for our lives and can be used by the devil to sow discord and division among us.
Let us turn to the Holy Scriptures for guidance. In James 4:1-2, it says: "What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God." This verse reminds us that our quarrels and fights are often rooted in our own desires and that we need to turn to God for guidance and healing.
So, how does the devil use quarrels to distract us from God's plan? The answer lies in the fact that when we are caught up in a quarrel, we are focused on ourselves and our own desires rather than on God's plan for our lives. We can become so consumed with winning an argument or proving ourselves right that we lose sight of our true purpose - to love and serve God and others.
What can we do to protect ourselves from falling into this trap? Firstly, we must pray. In Philippians 4:6-7, it says: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Through prayer, we can ask for forgiveness for our own sins and seek guidance on how to handle difficult situations.
Secondly, we should turn to the Holy Scriptures for guidance. In Proverbs 17:14, it says: "Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out." The Bible provides us with wisdom and guidance on how to handle difficult situations and how to love and serve God and others.
Lastly, we should seek accountability. In Galatians 6:2, it says: "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ." Having a community of believers who can hold us accountable and help us stay focused on God's plan is essential in overcoming the temptation to become caught up in quarrels and fights.
In conclusion, my dear children, we must be careful not to allow quarrels to distract us from God's plan for our lives. Through prayer, guidance from the Scriptures, and accountability, we can protect ourselves from the devil's deception and stay focused on loving and serving God and others. Let us pray together now, asking for forgiveness for our own sins and for the strength to resist the devil's attempts to sow discord and division among us. May God bless you and keep you always in His loving embrace. Amen.
